I can do the job and i want to move up, but i also enjoy my hobbies. I have no intention of sitting in front of a tv nor sat in a pub during the long winter evenings. home is what you make it but without like minded people to enjoy your past times it could quite easily become a lonely prison. look at the 'moving to shetland' thread, there are some lonely people in shetland, i dont intend being one of them. i will have to give up many of my interests, which i accept.