The Man, I appreciate your suspicion, but as Jeff points out, you cannot grieve when you don't know what happened, and in fact, I don't wish to grieve - i'm hopeful that he'll come bouncing back. While curiousity kills the cat, I'm sure the family and friends have already been bombarded with these questions so I'd rather leave them in peace. Everybody on this forum is eagar to know what happened, so that's why I raised my questions here. However, this was careless and inappropriate of me, as yonwifie points out, the police are doing this and it's not helpful to raise them here. Let's hope and pray that we get some positive news from a suitable source in the near future. PS.. just for clarification, I'm not from the press. I'm a friend who highly respects sandy.